Like everything else, it's all about context. It's pretty simple: if your partner likes it then do it. If she doesn't, DON'T.

Where it becomes misogynistic is when men push for it because they like it and have no regard for the woman's desire to do it (or not).

This is really well-written and researched but I don't think it's that complicated. Consult your partner. Make sure whatever you do is consensual and don't overthink it. It's sex for god's sake!